When porn or physical betrayal is discovered often the attention (focus) goes to the betrayer. Studies show that the woman betrayed has significant trauma from the discovery that her companion has been living a double life. Trust gets shattered and life gets uncertain. This is a time for sisters to walk along beside her and help her bear her burden. It is not a time to do more harm by taking sides or demonizing either party.
What are some helpful ways that we can offer this support to our sisters? I know every situation and every woman will be different, but are there some common specific needs that we might want to give particular attention to – company in/out of the home, helping with cooking/babysitting/cleaning, prayer/study, etc?